Tuesday, October 6, 2009

LINKED PATHS MERGING

The day has arrived and my Somebody has decided to link his life and merge with mine. No longer will it be his life or my life; in three days it will be our life. He made the decision to quit his job, pack up his belongings, settle his finances, finalize his divorce and begin a full and new life with me. And so it is, my Carl is coming home for good and moving in this upcoming Friday. Some might scratch their head and wonder while others open their arms and embrace him, our love for one another and me. Either way we both are taking a big risk but as Paulo Coelho once said "You have to take risks. We will only understand the miracle of life fully when we allow the unexpected to happen." So here I stand at this crossroad in my life and I am living fully, taking risks and allowing the unexpected to happen. In doing so I am preventing a death of a life half lived. So my dear Carl I say this to you...be true to yourself as I will always do the same. Make sure you truly love ME. Never get comfortable or complacent in our life together or our relationship. Never take me for granted. Always communicate fully, openly, forthcoming and honestly with me. Forgive me if I ever hurt you. Honor and respect me. And love me unconditionally. For these are but a few things I will do for you.

His View

The day arrived early and coffee was needed. A new begening had begun and much work lay ahead. Im feeling a grand feeling of freedom and openness as I sort thru what is needed and what is not. I dont have much but my heart for francine is huge and I am so looking forward to life with her, her family, our life. I have totally giving myself, my new self to her an am anxious to see the creation we build. As we form our life the picture will unfold to show the world who we are and what we've made.